Heart which is already TAKEN….

Falling in love is not in our hands, one don’t know when he or she will fall in love with the other person. Sometimes we end up hurting our self when we came to know that the person whom we love is already Taken. What should we do then????

I will tell you an option for the question above, I read a survey on Google according to which 7 out of 10 guys try to break relationship of the one whom they love and 8 out 10 is the score for girls. Now the question arises is this path is correct??

We guys as compared to girls are not patient most of the time, infect in every situation we want everything as soon as possible. But I want to tell my dudes and dolls that please don’t be a reason they end up single, respect their relationship. This gonna hurt you a lot but friends I guess this is the only way to see the person you love happy and smiling.

Being in love with someone who can never be yours is a painful state to be in. If you truly believe that there is no chance that your beloved will leave his/her partner for you, it is best end this up nicely. How????? It’s not an easy path to walk on guys. I am suffering with this painful, ass biting, heart aching trauma. If you want to see your love happy and don’t want to hurt them, guys keep distance and try to move on. Our feelings will remain with us forever and you can never forget about her but friends i guess this is what true love is, right?   

Well finally I think there’s a positive side too…

It could be that he/she finds in you a moral and emotional companion that they cannot find in their primary partners. More significantly your beloved might be in a genuinely unhappy relationship and it is only a matter of time before he/she opts out. There's nothing wrong in this.

In last I would like to say that love is a very beautiful feeling which turns your life into a beautiful dream. Don’t spoil it by doing something wrong. I know being alone with all dream shattered hurts but trust me seeing the one you love happy n smiling heals you within a while. I don’t know about you all but only one glimpse of her is enough for me to spend my entire day.

"Nothing you do will make me love you more or less, I didn't fall in love with what you did but who you are......"

Pretending not to like Some One, Toughest Thing...

Today I realized that it's really hard to pretend not to like a person when you really do. I have seen many guys and girls doing the same in my college life and in my professional life. Yeah yeah... I am one of them. But I think its really wrong to hide your feelings for the one you like, but on the other hand you just can't go to her and tell what you feel as there is very high probability of getting slapped and after that the feeling of getting embarrassed in front of every one... OMG, I am getting goosebumps imagining myself in that situation. 

No offence girls but let me tell you guys, girls are best in this. they really are. May be i am wrong but i guess most of you guys agree with me and i know somewhere girls feel the same too. But why???

Why we need to pretend, why can't we just go to a person and tell him or her what we feel. Why it is so difficult?? 

It really s**ks when you are ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. And why this happens??? when someone pretends not to like you.

I personally feel that if you like someone then you should tell him or her what you feel, before its too late or someone else will be sitting at your place on a date at a romantic place, holding her hand, laughing at you and you will be pretending that you don't give a damn about it but inside you will be cursing yourself thinking why didn't you took that one step of telling her. I know its not a easy deal but guys you really don't want to see someone else taking your place beside her. 

Friends I just know one thing that life don't give second chance... So stop thinking and start working, do anything(remember no bloody illegal stuff) and tell her about your feelings. Make a plan, take help of your friends... yeah I know friends screw things up rather than helping you out but still... its worth taking a chance..., but don't just let her go.

All the best lovers...

"Once in a while right in the middle of Ordinary life, Love give us a Fairy Tale..."

Neither I'm Single... nor Committed...

If you find yourself thinking about this person several times a day, and they are happy thoughts and maybe your heart beats a little faster, looking once at her make your day lovely n beautiful... it totally means that you are screwed in love... sorry sorry my bad, wrong words... it means you like that girl. I don't know about you guys but i get butterflies every time when i see her because she make me feel good without even talking. 

Today i fell in dilemma when my new friend asked me a question which i was unable to answer as i was confused. And this is the only reason why i am writing this post. He asked me "Mayank are you single or in relation with someone?". I looked at him and thought why the hell he is asking me this question. I kept quite and left the place but the question was still in my mind. I asked myself "M i single?" no.... but i am not in a relationship too... wtf. 

I am telling you friends this actually is a very awkward situation as i am facing this right now and most of you are facing i think. I actually hate this thing when you don't know what's in mind of the one you like or love. 

I asked my close friend what should i do? Idiot replied "try flirting a little and dropping hints. She will let you know through body language etc. what they think of you" Maybe he is right, but whenever i try to give a hint by making a eye contact and i look at her i feel like i am terribly shaking, and always find myself smiling senselessly. I am really bad in all this.

C'mon.... why the hell this is so difficult. why she don't understand what i am facing. Guys not everyone who is single is lonely and not everyone who is taken is in love. This takes time and enjoy this period of waiting. This feeling, these moments, your looking into her eyes, smiling after doing something stupid for her.... you all gonna miss this.

This blog's link is somehow linked with her blog but I don't know whether she is reading this blog or not, but all i want to say is "I am waiting madam... its your turn and I don't want to be confused anymore. Lets start our friendship and leave rest to god." 

She likes me... She likes me not...

She likes me... She likes me not??? Obvious question faced by every guy whenever he fell for someone. Trust me this Question can lead to sleepless nights , one can leave his meal thinking of this same question again and again.

Why this is so difficult? why can't we just go to her and tell what we guys feel for them. What are we afraid of...???? Well i don't know, my bad. I am confused too and facing the same shitty situation right now. We guys have courage of doing anything in this world but whenever there's a girl involve in anything all of a sudden our level of courage goes down to big ZERO. 

Waiting for her where she often comes, looking at her hiding behind someone, following her without letting her know are few tasks where no-one can beat me or i should say beat us(Guys). 

Looking into her eyes or making an eye contact with her is all we want, why can't they just look into our eyes knowing the fact that we are looking at them, all it take is few seconds of their time... But no... they want us to take the pain all the time. But let me tell you one thing guys i don't know about you all but i just love this attitude of her, it is an add-on in her beauty.

Accept this guys, each and everyone of us try to get a sight of her either by following or waiting for them for long time without thinking of consequences or what impression we are making on them.

Yes this is true, i follow my stupid heart ignoring my idiot mind in situation like this and i guess everyone of us(guys) do this only.

I know, most of us fail in this battle but friends i think being in love or attracted to someone is an amazing feeling. One can never forget all the stupid things he did just to gain her attention that too for a second. I don't know what's their(Girls) take on this and what they think, but we should respect them no matter what are the results.

Hmm.... my case is kinda weird. All i am doing is waiting waiting and waiting.... Sometimes it actually hurt but I hope my wait will end soon, a glimpse of her is the source of my energy and keeps me charged till i meet her again... :) . I don't know what's gonna happen, all i can do is hope for the best.

Well i think its never easy as things never workout the way you wanted them to be but still one should never stop trying, there's a saying "FORGET THE RISK AND TAKE THE FALL IF ITS WHAT YOU WANT THEN ITS WORTH IT ALL"